Certainty = Security = Good
Certainty = Same-Old-Thing = Boring = Bad
Little Surprises = Something New = Exciting = Good
We want to feel safe in our relationships. We want safety on all levels: emotional, physical, spiritual, etc. We also crave things that are new. Over time, in our relationships we start to take for granted all the good things about the other person.
We get caught up in life and don’t take the time to do special things for each other. Sometimes this is because we think that it will take too much time, energy, or even resources (like money).
Here is a very simple way to add newness to your relationship. It takes little time, energy, and it’s free.